Charity begins at home. How often I heard that statement growing up. I was raised in a church going home where the Bible was prominent on our bookshelves. The common understanding of the definition of charity back then was an ethical consideration, the intention to judge people in a tolerant way, to forgive transgressions, to see others possessing the frailties we, too, had. Today the word charity is usually invoked to refer to an organization that collects money to help needy people. One gives to a charity, or founds a charity.